April 20, 2011


I saw this meme in Mimi's blog and thought, what the hell...why not?

1) Do you make friends easily? 

That would be a NO! Most people tell me that when they first met me they thought I was a bitch/stuck up. I'm not stuck up, a bitch? Sometimes. But the truth is, I've extremely shy. Always have been. And I don't trust people easily anymore. So, you've got to be hella cool for me to instantly like & trust you. Not an easy task.

2) What 3 qualities are a must in a friend?

Honesty, it also helps if you don't have "sticky fingers." I've had enough of thievin' mofo's in my life.

Loyalty - This is a big one for me. The first time I find out you're talking behind my back or betraying my trust, we're done. Period. I'm done with bitches who you think are your friends and then they go around starting rumors about you.Trifilin' hos!

A good sense of humor. This is a MUST. You see, I like to "rag" people. I'll be the first person to laugh at you if you fall (it's all in love), and then I'll be sure to tell everyone that I possibly can. I expect you to do the same to me.

3) What makes YOU a good friend? 

Well, first of all I'm loyal as all get out. True dat. I'll whip a bitches ass for you if I have to. I'll take your secrets to the grave with me. And best of all? I'll make you laugh, I'll pick on you for every single reason you give me to. I'll also give you plenty of reasons to laugh at me. Sounds like a fair deal to me.

 4) Have you ever met a bloggy friend in real life?

Nope. Was supposed to meet 3 of them last summer but it didn't work out. I'm still pouting over it lol. There are a few I'd like to meet though.

 5) Who is your best friend? Tell us about them.

My Sisters. They're the only bitches (IRL) that I trust at the moment. And they get my "quirky" sense of humor. They're loyal to a fault, they know most of my secrets and besides telling them to each other, I don't think they've ever told anyone else lol. They're loving, supportive and they gang up on me and pick on me all the damn time when we're together. Now that I think about it, they're a couple of bully's damn it. :0} But I love 'em, I'd be lost without them. That's real shit yo.

If you'd like to join in the fun you can click on the button at the top of this post to do so. You should all go check out Mimi's blog too. I promise, you'll laugh.

On a side note, I've lost two followers in the last two days. WTH? I'm not about the numbers, honestly I could care less (though I appreciate every one of y'all. Much love) but when I lose followers I worry that maybe I said something to offend someone. Have any of you (my loyal followers) been offended by any of my post lately?

Oh yeah, if I find out who my two deserters are I'll hunt you down and hit you with a pillow or some fluffy thing. Just sayin'.

I've gotta run, I'm going to get my hair trimmed and highlighted. Can't wait!


MiMi said...

I hope the trim goes well! Remember my "trim" that was actually a CUT?! lol
Thanks for the shout out! I love that you pick on your friends...I should have said that cuz that's what I do too. I pick on everyone actually. And the thing is that sometimes people think I'm serious!! And that irks the shit outta me!
Love that little blue birdy. :)

Impulsive Addict said...

We LOVE Mimi and we're so glad you linked up!!

My bloggy friends wouldn't think that I was shy IRL but I totally am sometimes so I get that. I"m sure it's been mistaken for bitchy before. Whatev, right?

I love your qualities and I agree 100%!

I love that you keep secrets but would you help dispose of a body? I'm just curious. THAT would be a great friend to have.

I've learned that followers come and go. If they don't like you, then it's their loss. Don't let it bother you too much.

That little tweet bird that keeps flying around is awesome!!

Nadine Hightower said...

My theory about followers... they follow to find you again and then they read awhile. "try you on" and then you may not click. And they stop following. I rather have 5 steady followers that comment than 1000 followers that do not ever leave a comment.

Nadine Hightower said...

Thank you so much for stopping by... come back anytime! The is always open and the tequila is in the freezer!

Mamarazzi said...

theivin mofos...awesome!!

i lost a few followers overnight too. i am now blaming google.

it's not us...i am sure of it!!

oh and my sisters are most def on my list of besties.

thanks for linking up, cute blog. happy to have you join in our linky party!!!

Mamarazzi said...

i thought i commented earlier but maybe i didn't

my sisters are really the only IRL friends that i trust totally.

i am glad you linked up, love making new bloggy friends!

Date Girl said...

Any woman that can call herself a bitch is someone I know I'm going to like! The older I get, the less willing I am to trust people. I will be acquaintances but it takes me awhile before I can truly trust someone, especially a girl friend.

My follower number changes daily from feedburner. I don't know that it's all that accurate. I think it just judges the hits I get per day or something. One day it'll be 50 something next day it's 80 something. Very tough on the self esteem! I try to ignore it as best I can.

Amber said...

My friends will often tell me I'm being snotty when I'm in a group of new people - I'm not TRYING to be snotty, I just have a difficult time opening up.

I have to admit that this link up has made me feel better about not making friends so easily - seems like quite a few share the same struggles!

Johanson Family said...

Yay! Thank you so much for linking up!! I'm a prior cajun.... where are you!? I lived in Lafayette for 5.5 years.. such a different world!! Sorry you've lost followers, but how about I become one to help cheer ya up! :)

Shawn said...

I get the same thing about being a stuck up bitch and I agree totally with you. Stuck up no. Bitch, well the shoe fits so...

OK you're a hoot. "thievin' mofo's". Can we meet for a drink?

I've lost 2-3 followers too, I think I may start keeping a list so I know who left. What I'll do with that information I have no idea, maybe visit their blog and leave a nasty anonymous comment. JK, I hate those, I would never do that! I have girlballs, I'll say what I have to say with no bag over my face!

Thanks for linking up, see you next Wednesday!

Natalia said...

haha! can i be there when you attack those people with the pillow?

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